Care for the carers
As humans, we are inherently social beings. We are born to connect with and care for others.
Posted 7th January 2021 by Kelly Pavan
We looked forward to putting 2020 to bed on New Year’s Eve, celebrating the end of one of the most globally challenging years in living history, and hoping for better times to come in 2021. Unsurprisingly, it turns out that COVID-19 did not take this as a hard deadline.
Here we are at the end of June, with lockdowns and unpredictability continuing to rule over us, dictating areas of our lives that we previously took for granted as everyday freedoms. And nothing quite activates the autonomic nervous system like headlines about mutant COVID strains popping up across the country (or the prospect of reverting to home schooling!).
Since this kicked off, some of us have lost loved ones, lived with job security issues, experienced the relationship strains intrinsic to being confined to close quarters with others, financial problems, and so on.
Frustration, overwhelm, panic, or perhaps a level of desensitisation to unfolding events are some normal feelings in response to this kind of prolonged stress. Not to mention the productive guilt – social media and news mediums are a constant reminder that while Shakespeare managed to write King Lear in lockdown during the bubonic plague, I’ve only binged a few Netflix series from the couch in the life and times of COVID-19.
But when does understandable fatigue and related despondency crossover into a condition known as burnout, that has a more serious impact on our ability to take care of ourselves and do the things we know will safeguard our mental and physical wellbeing to see us through this?
The term burnout was coined in 1974 by Herbert Freudenberger in his book, Burnout: The High Cost of High Achievement. He defined burnout as “the extinction of motivation or incentive, especially where one’s devotion to a cause or relationship fails to produce the desired results."
Over the following years, Freudenberger’s theory was applied to workplace stress and employee engagement.
However, there are lessons we can draw on that apply to what we are experiencing now; particularly in recognising burnout related to the pandemic and strategies to mitigate a longer-term impact.
Symptoms of burnout to look out for are prolonged experiences of:
Tips to manage pandemic burnout symptoms:
As humans, we are inherently social beings. We are born to connect with and care for others.
As human beings, it’s in our nature to worry – it’s our brain’s way of keeping us safe and preparing us for what might lie ahead.